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عن ابن شهاب أن علي بن الحسين حدثه أنهم حين قدموا المدينة من عند يزيد بن معاوية مقتل الحسين بن علي رحمة الله عليه لقيه المسور بن مخرمة فقال له هل لك إلي من حاجة تأمرني بها فقلت له لا فقال فهل أنت معطي سيف رسول الله صلى الله عليه و آله و سلم فإني أخاف أن يغلبك القوم عليه و ايم الله لئن أعطيتنيه لا يخلص إليهم أبدا حتى تبلغ نفسي إن علي بن أبي طالب خطب ابنة أبي جهل على فاطمة رضي الله عنها فسمعت رسول الله صلى الله عليه و آله و سلم يخطب الناس في ذلك على منبره هذا و أنا يومئذ محتلم فقال إن فاطمة مني و أنا أتخوف أن تفتن في دينها ثم ذكر صهرا له من بني عبد شمس فأثنى عليه في مصاهرته إياه قال حدثني فصدقني و وعدني فوفى لي و إني لست أحرم حلالا و لا أحل حراما و لكن و الله لا تجتمع بنت رسول الله صلى الله عليه و آله و سلم و بنت عدو الله أبدا
On the authority of Ibn Shihab who says that ‘Ali ibn al Hussain narrated to him that when they arrived in Madinah after departing from Yazid ibn Muawiyah, following the martyrdom of Hussain ibn ‘Ali radiya Llahu ‘anhu.
Al Miswar ibn Makhramah radiya Llahu ‘anhu met him and said to him, “Do you have any need from me which you might command me?”
He replied in the negative.
He said, “So are you going to give me the sword of Rasulullah salla Llahu ‘alayhi wa sallam for I fear that the people will dominate you over it. And by Allah, if you give it to me, it will never reach them as long as I live. Indeed, ‘Ali ibn Abi Talib proposed to the daughter of Abu Jahl while married to Fatimah radiya Llahu ‘anha. Subsequently, I heard Rasulullah salla Llahu ‘alayhi wa sallam addressing the people while on this pulpit regarding this, when I was still a young man. He said, ‘Certainly, Fatimah is from me and I fear that she will be trialled in her din.’ He thereafter mentioned his in-law from Banu ‘Abdul Shams [i.e. Abu al ‘As ibn Rabi’] and complimented him for maintaining his ties of relationship to himself saying, ‘He gave me his word and was true to the same. He promised me and fulfilled his promise. I neither forbid a permissible action nor do I permit a forbidden one. However, by Allah, the daughter of the Messenger of Allah and the daughter of the enemy of Allah will never unite [in the wedlock of the same man]![1]
The narration of Sahih Muslim has the following addition:
إنما فاطمة بضعة مني يؤذيني ما آذاها
Fatimah is from me and what hurts her, hurts me.[2]
Answer: Fatimah radiya Llahu ‘anha had told Rasulullah salla Llahu ‘alayhi wa sallam that the talk of the town is that you do not get angry for your daughters. To remove this false notion Rasulullah salla Llahu ‘alayhi wa sallam gave this message from the pulpit.
يَا نِسَاءَ النَّبِيِّ لَسْتُنَّ كَأَحَدٍ مِّنَ النِّسَاءِ
O wives of the Prophet, you are not like anyone among women.[3]
وفي منع علي من الجمع بين فاطمة -رضي الله عنها- وبين بنت أبي جهل، حكمة بديعة، وهي أن المرأة مع زوجها في درجته تبع له، فإن كانت في نفسها ذات درجة عالية، وزوجها كذلك، كانت في درجة عالية بنفسها وبزوجها، وهذا شأن فاطمة وعلي -رضي الله عنهما- ولم يكن الله عز وجل ليجعل ابنة أبي جهل مع فاطمة -رضي الله عنها- في درجة واحدة لا بنفسها، ولا تبعا، وبينهما من الفرق ما بينهما، فلم يكن نكاحها على سيدة نساء العالمين مستحسنا لا شرعا، ولا قدرا، وقد أشار صلى الله عليه وسلم إلى هذا بقوله: والله لا تجتمع بنت رسول الله، وبنت عدو الله في مكان واحد أبدا،
There remains great wisdom behind the prohibition of ‘Ali radiya Llahu ‘anhu marrying the daughter of Abu Jahl whilst married to Fatimah radiya Llahu ‘anha. A woman is considered to be on the same status as her husband. In this instance, Fatimah radiya Llahu ‘anha and her husband ‘Ali radiya Llahu ‘anhu were considered to be of a very lofty state. Allah subhanahu wa ta ‘ala did not wish to then place the daughter of Abu Jahl on the same status as Fatimah radiya Llahu ‘anha when the difference between them is self-evident. This prohibition was therefore borne out of prudence. Rasulullah salla Llahu ‘alayhi wa sallam indicated towards this by saying, “By Allah, the daughter of the Messenger of Allah and the daughter of the enemy of Allah will never unite [in the wedlock of the same man].”[4]
[1] Sahih al Bukhari, Hadith: 2943.
[2] Sahih Muslim, Hadith: 4483.
[3] Surah al Ahzab: 32.
[4] Zad al Ma’ad, vol. 5 pg. 107.
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عن ابن شهاب أن علي بن الحسين حدثه أنهم حين قدموا المدينة من عند يزيد بن معاوية مقتل الحسين بن علي رحمة الله عليه لقيه المسور بن مخرمة فقال له هل لك إلي من حاجة تأمرني بها فقلت له لا فقال فهل أنت معطي سيف رسول الله صلى الله عليه و آله و سلم فإني أخاف أن يغلبك القوم عليه و ايم الله لئن أعطيتنيه لا يخلص إليهم أبدا حتى تبلغ نفسي إن علي بن أبي طالب خطب ابنة أبي جهل على فاطمة رضي الله عنها فسمعت رسول الله صلى الله عليه و آله و سلم يخطب الناس في ذلك على منبره هذا و أنا يومئذ محتلم فقال إن فاطمة مني و أنا أتخوف أن تفتن في دينها ثم ذكر صهرا له من بني عبد شمس فأثنى عليه في مصاهرته إياه قال حدثني فصدقني و وعدني فوفى لي و إني لست أحرم حلالا و لا أحل حراما و لكن و الله لا تجتمع بنت رسول الله صلى الله عليه و آله و سلم و بنت عدو الله أبدا
On the authority of Ibn Shihab who says that ‘Ali ibn al Hussain narrated to him that when they arrived in Madinah after departing from Yazid ibn Muawiyah, following the martyrdom of Hussain ibn ‘Ali radiya Llahu ‘anhu.
Al Miswar ibn Makhramah radiya Llahu ‘anhu met him and said to him, “Do you have any need from me which you might command me?”
He replied in the negative.
He said, “So are you going to give me the sword of Rasulullah salla Llahu ‘alayhi wa sallam for I fear that the people will dominate you over it. And by Allah, if you give it to me, it will never reach them as long as I live. Indeed, ‘Ali ibn Abi Talib proposed to the daughter of Abu Jahl while married to Fatimah radiya Llahu ‘anha. Subsequently, I heard Rasulullah salla Llahu ‘alayhi wa sallam addressing the people while on this pulpit regarding this, when I was still a young man. He said, ‘Certainly, Fatimah is from me and I fear that she will be trialled in her din.’ He thereafter mentioned his in-law from Banu ‘Abdul Shams [i.e. Abu al ‘As ibn Rabi’] and complimented him for maintaining his ties of relationship to himself saying, ‘He gave me his word and was true to the same. He promised me and fulfilled his promise. I neither forbid a permissible action nor do I permit a forbidden one. However, by Allah, the daughter of the Messenger of Allah and the daughter of the enemy of Allah will never unite [in the wedlock of the same man]![1]
The narration of Sahih Muslim has the following addition:
إنما فاطمة بضعة مني يؤذيني ما آذاها
Fatimah is from me and what hurts her, hurts me.[2]
Answer: Fatimah radiya Llahu ‘anha had told Rasulullah salla Llahu ‘alayhi wa sallam that the talk of the town is that you do not get angry for your daughters. To remove this false notion Rasulullah salla Llahu ‘alayhi wa sallam gave this message from the pulpit.
يَا نِسَاءَ النَّبِيِّ لَسْتُنَّ كَأَحَدٍ مِّنَ النِّسَاءِ
O wives of the Prophet, you are not like anyone among women.[3]
وفي منع علي من الجمع بين فاطمة -رضي الله عنها- وبين بنت أبي جهل، حكمة بديعة، وهي أن المرأة مع زوجها في درجته تبع له، فإن كانت في نفسها ذات درجة عالية، وزوجها كذلك، كانت في درجة عالية بنفسها وبزوجها، وهذا شأن فاطمة وعلي -رضي الله عنهما- ولم يكن الله عز وجل ليجعل ابنة أبي جهل مع فاطمة -رضي الله عنها- في درجة واحدة لا بنفسها، ولا تبعا، وبينهما من الفرق ما بينهما، فلم يكن نكاحها على سيدة نساء العالمين مستحسنا لا شرعا، ولا قدرا، وقد أشار صلى الله عليه وسلم إلى هذا بقوله: والله لا تجتمع بنت رسول الله، وبنت عدو الله في مكان واحد أبدا،
There remains great wisdom behind the prohibition of ‘Ali radiya Llahu ‘anhu marrying the daughter of Abu Jahl whilst married to Fatimah radiya Llahu ‘anha. A woman is considered to be on the same status as her husband. In this instance, Fatimah radiya Llahu ‘anha and her husband ‘Ali radiya Llahu ‘anhu were considered to be of a very lofty state. Allah subhanahu wa ta ‘ala did not wish to then place the daughter of Abu Jahl on the same status as Fatimah radiya Llahu ‘anha when the difference between them is self-evident. This prohibition was therefore borne out of prudence. Rasulullah salla Llahu ‘alayhi wa sallam indicated towards this by saying, “By Allah, the daughter of the Messenger of Allah and the daughter of the enemy of Allah will never unite [in the wedlock of the same man].”[4]
[1] Sahih al Bukhari, Hadith: 2943.
[2] Sahih Muslim, Hadith: 4483.
[3] Surah al Ahzab: 32.
[4] Zad al Ma’ad, vol. 5 pg. 107.